Divorce

How To Waste Your Money After Retaining a Divorce Attorney

April 11, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

I doubt many would say that getting a divorce is easy. But…

You took the time to consult with attorneys. You carefully selected and retained a skilled, qualified divorce attorney to guide you through the tough journey. Now, the question is “do I listen to this professional, or do I waste my money”? It really is the choice of the client to make appropriate use of their divorce attorney. Failure to do so will only result in the financial benefit of the divorce attorney.

The following are the most common ways for a client to waste their money with their divorce attorney:

Using your divorce attorney as your counselor – Clients should leave the counseling to professionals licensed to counsel, allowing the divorce attorney to practice law. Every call, email, and text to and from your attorney becomes billable to you. Divorce attorneys understand the emotional struggles of clients and are willing to provide some emotional support. However, divorce attorneys are not trained nor licensed to be therapists. Clients should be encouraged to seek support through divorce groups, and/or counselors qualified to assist people who are going through a divorce.
Failing to be honest with your divorce attorney – You hired a divorce attorney to guide your through the divorce process, and to fight for your rights. But yet, you fail to be truthful with your divorce attorney. Even an omission can be a devesting set back in a divorce case. Failure to tell your divorce attorney about an event that may not put you in the best light can harm the final outcome of your case. Your divorce attorney needs to know the facts, whether the facts are good or bad for you. It’s better that your divorce attorney understands the facts sooner than later. The alternative is that your divorce attorney is blindsided in court with facts that should have been shared with them well before court.
The “blame game” – Clients spend too much time communicating with their divorce attorney in an effort to make their spouse “look bad”. Divorce attorneys understand that you and your spouse are seeking a divorce for a reason, and that you no longer may get along. It is a very rare occasion that only one person can be blamed for the complete breakdown of the marriage.
Engaging in the Tupperware wars – Clients refuse to do simple math. Clients should ask themselves “Is what I am fighting for worth the cost of attorney’s fees?”. Make smart decisions about what truly is worth fighting for and focus your efforts on those issues that are worth the financial investment.
Fighting the divorce – You have been served with divorce papers and took action to hire an attorney. Yet, your energy is spent on finding ways to get your spouse back. You refuse to be cooperative with your attorney. The one thing a divorce attorney can’t do is make your spouse change their mind about the divorce. Your focus is best placed assisting your attorney to obtain the best outcome you can – to assist in protecting your future.

What Is a Judgment Of Divorce

April 6, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

A Judgment of Divorce is the legal document that finalizes the divorce process. It is the written court order that formally dissolves the marriage.

WHAT DOES A JUDGMENT OF DIVORCE CONTAIN?

The Judgment of Divorce contains the terms of the judge’s ruling after trial on all aspects of the divorce, or the specific terms of the of the parties’ agreement. A Judgment of Divorce contains pertinent information as follows:

Divorces with minor children:

Custody
Parenting time
Holiday parenting time
Telephone contact
Extracurricular activities
Any miscellaneous provisions specific to the parties
Child support
Health insurance
Residency (100 mile) Rule
Change of Domicile Rule
Hague Convention
Income Tax Exemptions

All divorces (with or without minor children)

Vehicles
Personal property
Bank accounts
Retirement accounts
Real property
Debts
Restoration of maiden name
Other statutory provisions

WHAT IF THE TERMS OF THE JUDGMENT OF DIVORCE ARE NOT FOLLOWED?

A Judgment of Divorce is a court order and therefore both parties are bound to its terms and required to follow its provisions. Failure to follow the Judgment of Divorce may lead to court-imposed sanctions.

WHAT IF THE JUDGMENT OF DIVORCE NEEDS TO BE MODIFIED?

A modification can be achieved two ways.

The parties come to an agreement, that agreement is reduced to writing through a stipulated order, and presented to the judge for signature.
One of the parties files a motion, a hearing is set, and the judge makes a ruling on the matter. There are times when the issue requires an additional hearing called an evidentiary hearing. If the judge believes an evidentiary hearing is required, a date will be set by the court wherein testimony will be taken, and the judge will rule on the matter.

Experienced Divorce Attorney

If you need to know more about a Michigan divorce, including how to file for a divorce, contact an experienced attorney, Laurie Schmitt at Schmitt Law, PLLC. We look forward to speaking with you and being your advocate during this crucial time in reframing your life. Call Schmitt Law, PLLC at (616) 608-4634 or contact us online to arrange a consultation.

What Is a Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form In a Divorce?

April 1, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

In the State of Michigan, after you have filed a complaint for divorce, both parties are required to exchange financial affidavits (known formally as the “Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form”). The Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form must be exchanged within 28 days after the date of service of Defendant’s initial responsive pleadings to the complaint for divorce.

What Information Is Required To Be Disclosed In The Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form?

The Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form requires you to disclose the following information:

Personal Information: Must provide name, address, phone number, date of birth, social security number, and driver’s license number.
Employment Information: Must provide employer’s name, address, gross income, and hourly rate of pay. If self-employed, they must list all draws made during the last 12 months.
Employment Benefits: Must provide health, vision, dental, life, and retirement benefits, car allowance, expense reimbursement, and any other benefits received by the employer.
Other Income: Must provide income from all other sources such as commissions, bonuses, profit sharing, interest, dividends, annuities, pensions, trust funds, IRA’s, worker’s compensation, social security benefits, VA benefits, disability insurance, GI benefits, rental income, and spousal support.
Real Property: Must provide address, date of purchase, estimated value, SEV, balance of mortgage, monthly payment, name of lender, and information on any equity loan.
Financial Accounts: Must provide type of account, account number, name of institution, name on account, current balance, and balance 90 days before current balance. This information must be provided for each account.
Pension: Must provide all defined benefit plans to include company or employer name, lump sum value, estimated monthly payment, and earliest date eligible to receive pension.
Life Insurance: Must provide insurance company name, policy number, policy owner, beneficiary, account of death benefit, premium amount, cash surrender value, and if employer provided.
Motorized Vehicles: Must provide year, make, model, title holder, lender, estivated value, and amount owed.
Personal Property: Must provide description of property, estimated value, and date purchased or acquired.
Debts: This includes credit cards, personal loans, student financial aid loans, other unsecured loans. Must provide type of debt, name of lender, account number, name on account, and balance owed.
Court Ordered Financial Obligations: This includes child support, spousal support, garnishments, civil judgments, court-ordered fines, fees, and restitution.

What Does “Verified” Mean?

As the title notes, the Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form is “verified”, meaning you must sign the form in front of a notary declaring the statements are true. Therefore, it is imperative that the person completing the Domestic Relations Verified Financial Information Form be truthful in their statements, as the statements made can be used against them in any court proceeding.

Going through the Court to solve your divorce.

If you’re going through a divorce and want to understand your options, Schmitt Law, PLLC is standing by to assist. To schedule a consultation or learn more about our services, contact Schmitt Law, PLLC online or call (616) 608-4634.

What Are My Divorce Options?

March 28, 2022 By SchmittLawAdmin

You are ready to move forward with a divorce. But you have no idea how to get started, and are overwhelmed with all the various terms you find relating to divorce.

When a client arrives for their initial consultation with Schmitt Law, PLLC, they often have no idea of what their options are to obtain a divorce. In the initial consultation, we take the time to discuss the options available to the client to ensure that they select the option that best fits their needs.

The following is a list of options available to parties who are seeking a divorce.

PRE-DIVORCE FILING MEDIATION: Mediation is a process that allows you and your spouse to resolve conflict in a peaceful manner. You and your spouse meet with a neutral third party who is trained in the mediation process (the mediator). The mediator will assist you and your spouse in discussing the outstanding issues, helping both of you review your options, so that you may reach an acceptable outcome of your differences. A pre-divorce filing mediation is held prior to the complaint for divorce being filed. The parties reach a full agreement on their outstanding issues and then proceed to the filing of the complaint for divorce.
MEDIATION AFTER FILING: This process is the same as the pre-filing mediation, with the difference being that the mediation is held after the complaint for divorce has been filed and served on the other party.
COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE PROCESS: In the collaborative divorce process, the parties resolve their issues in a respectful manner, using a team approach. The team assists the parties in crafting solutions in the best interest of each party, without involving the judge to make their final decisions. In the collaborative divorce process, the parties, their respective attorneys and a coach meet in a group setting. An agenda is set for each meeting, to assist the team to stay on track. These meetings are designed to encourage the sharing of ideas and settlement options.
UNCONTESTED DIVORCE: Schmitt Law, PLLC offers a process we call “uncontested divorce”. An uncontested divorce is one in which the parties have resolved all of the issues, and there is no need for court intervention. In this process, we work to ensure that the outcome of the divorce reflects the parties wishes. This process allows the parties to maintain total control of their agreement. Schmitt Law, PLLC accepts uncontested divorces for a flat rate fee.
LITIGATION: In this process, the parties are unable to resolve their differences, and the Judge unilaterally decides the outcome of the parties’ divorce. This is the least desirable option for most parties as it is the most difficult, time consuming, and expensive process to obtain a divorce.

Experienced Divorce Attorney

We understand that filing for divorce can be an emotional and confusing experience. That is why we are committed to providing personalized service to each client we represent and will be with you through this difficult journey. We are prepared to guide you in all aspects of your case.

To discuss your circumstances and legal options, contact Schmitt Law, PLLC online or call (616) 608-4634 to schedule a consultation.

How To Prepare For a Custody Mediation

March 24, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

All family law cases are difficult. However, custody cases can be the most challenging for parents. Whether your case is a divorce, child custody, parenting time, or child support case, Mediation offers a less stressful option for couples.

In Mediation, the parties and their attorneys meet with a neutral third party who will assist you in coming to an agreement that is fair and equitable.

Before you attend Mediation, it is important for you and your attorney to prepare. It is also imperative that both the client and attorney have a shared understanding of what outcome the client desires through the Mediation process.

As this is a difficult time for the client, it is normal to have questions and concerns about the process and outcome. At Schmitt Law, PLLC, we sit down with every client prior to mediation and discuss our strategy. This allows us to be “on the same page” with the client when we attend Mediation.

The following is a checklist that Schmitt Law, PLLC reviews with all clients prior to attending a custody Mediation.

Make sure you have provided copies of all relevant documents to your attorney so that they can have the necessary documents available for mediation.
What type of legal custody are you seeking? Joint or sole?
What type of physical custody are you seeking? Joint or sole?
What parenting time schedule are you seeking? Does your work schedule allow you to exercise parenting time on the schedule you are seeking? Do you have daycare available if needed?
What holiday schedule are you seeking? The following are the major holidays that Schmitt Law, PLLC typically requests: New Year’s Eve, New Year’s Day, Easter, Memorial Day, July 4, Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas Eve, Christmas Day, Child’s birthday, Spring Break, Christmas break, Mother’s or Father’s Day, and any other day important to the client.
What type of telephone contact are you seeking? What days of the week, what time of the day, and for what length of time?
Who will provide transportation for pick up and return of the children?
Who will claim the child as a dependent under City, State and Federal Taxes?
What happens if one or both of the parties require a change in their parenting time schedule?

And through the mediation process, be sure to put your child’s needs first – prioritize what is best for the child, and what is best for their day-to-day routine. When you place the child first, much of the decisions to follow become easy to make.

Experienced Michigan Child Custody Attorney

Laurie Schmitt at Schmitt Law, PLLC is experienced in family law cases involving visitation and custody. Over the years, I have successfully represented hundreds of clients in complicated cases. For skilled legal guidance, please call Laurie at Schmitt Law, PLC at (616) 608-4634, or contact us online to arrange a consultation.

Informed Decision Making In A Divorce

February 23, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

There have been many times meeting with new clients that they state they want their divorce to be quick, simple, and inexpensive. They want swift closure to the case, so that they can move on in their lives. However, the mindset of “let’s get this done fast” can lead to clients making poor financial choices. And the choices clients make during their divorce can have long lasting financial impact on their future.

There are many financial decisions to be made when getting a divorce such what party will retain the house or will the house be sold, what is the value of the marital home, how much child support am I entitled to, how much spousal support am I entitled to, what will be the division of the stocks, bonds and retirement accounts, and who will be responsible for the debts acquired during the marriage.

So, what does it mean for clients to make informed decisions about the matters listed above? In order for clients to make informed decisions regarding financial matters, it is necessary to know the client’s assets, debts, and income – a spreadsheet of their finances is required. In order to obtain a full picture of a client’s financial position, it requires documents to be gathered and analyzed. Once the attorney has a full picture of the client’s financial position, it is then that the attorney can provide solid legal advice to the client.

There are times the necessary financial documents and information are easily obtained. Other times, it requires third parties to assist such as appraisers, financial advisors, and accountants. If the parties cannot agree on value of the business, marital home, or personal property, appraisers need to be hired. If there are complex issues in a specific case, it is not uncommon for the parties to have discussions with their financial advisors, and for the attorney to defer to an accountant to assist with review and preparation of a financial spreadsheet.

Clients grow weary during the divorce process. And at times clients fail to see the value in appraisals and third-party assistance. However, it is then that the attorney must educate the client as to the reasons to obtain an accurate picture regarding their financial status so that a fair and equitable division can be made. And, without accurate financial information it is difficult to calculate what is appropriate for child support and spousal support.

Because financial decisions made during a divorce impact the clients for a significant period of time, or for a lifetime, it is imperative that clients be educated to the value of “getting it right” the first time, to eliminate “buyer’s remorse”. Clients must understand that there is no second bite of the apple when it comes to property and debt distribution.

For more information about your rights as it pertains to divorce, contact me, Laurie Schmitt, Attorney at Law, at Schmitt Law, PLLC, by calling 616-608-4634 or on the following link: https://laurieschmittlaw.com/contact/

Communication With Your Attorney

February 14, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

It is important in the early stages of your relationship with your attorney to understand and agree to the preferred method of contact between you and your attorney. Do they prefer emails, texts, or telephone calls? If you establish an agreement about communication when you retain your attorney, you will find that communication, and responses to your communication will be more efficient.

Also, in the initial interview I inform clients that if they are going to be communicating with me from an email account, they should never use their work email account. When you communicate through a work email account, there is no expectation of privacy. What does that mean to the client? That means that any communication you have with your attorney may not be confidential. Your employer may have access to your email account. And, because you may not have any expectation of privacy from that email account, it may not be considered by the court to be confidential. If your email account is not confidential, all communication from it can be subpoenaed by the other attorney and used against you in court.

Similarly, to protect client privacy, clients should open a new secure email account for the sole purpose of communicating with their attorney. The reason for this safety measure is so your spouse cannot gain access to it. If you use a former email account, it may be that you spouse has the password to your account, or could guess what it may be. Open a new account, and password protect it with a password that is obscure, and one that you have never used before. There is nothing more horrifying than to know all of your email communication between you and your attorney has been compromised by your spouse.

Lastly, in January, 2022, Dearborn police reported that criminals have been attaching a small Apple tracker to people’s vehicles in order to monitor them for stalking or auto theft. Officials said Apple AirTags — quarter-sized GPS tracking devices designed to help people locate their wallets, car keys and other personal items — are being used to illegally track people and vehicles. Even though in Michigan, it’s illegal for a citizen to track anyone with a GPS device without their knowledge, it happens not only from criminals but with soon-to-be ex-spouses. If you have a concern that this will be an issue in your case, you can easily monitor for Apple Tags. This is automatic for iPhones, and clients using Android devices can be advised to download and install the app.

If you have questions about the best methods to communicate with your attorney, or any other questions related to the divorce process, contact Schmitt Law, PLLC and set up an appointment. Give us a call at 616-608-4634.

How Long Does It Take To Get A Divorce In Michigan?

January 31, 2022 By Laurie Schmitt

Under Michigan law, if there are no minor children of the marriage, the mandatory wait period is 60 days from the date of filing the complaint for divorce. If there are minor children of the marriage, the statutory wait period is six months from the date of filing the complaint for divorce. These statutory wait periods are defined in MCL 552.9(f).

Typically, a divorce will only be completed within these statutory wait periods if the parties agree on the terms of the judgment of divorce (the divorce remains uncontested). However, many divorces cannot be completed as uncontested divorces. Because of that, the actual time-frame to complete a divorce in Michigan is based on many factors such as:

The complexity of the case
What issues the parties cannot resolve
If there is a need for mediation
If there is a need to complete the discovery process
If there is a need for trial

If the divorce remains contested, the actual date of completion of the divorce will realistically exceed the statutory wait periods.

More commonly seen for time-frames to complete divorces in Michigan is that the process takes between six to nine months. If your divorce remains contested, and a trial is necessary, you can expect to have a trial scheduled and completed within a year of the date of filing. This means if your case requires a trial with the judge, you will not be divorced until a trial is held and a judge makes their final ruling.

If you have questions about how long a divorce takes in Michigan or any other questions related to the divorce process, contact Schmitt Law, PLLC and set up an appointment. Give us a call at 616-608-4634.

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